Tuesday, January 24, 2012
I know you are saying weird subject but hang in there. I said all this to tell about the cats. When a cat gets hit by a car and Paul or I have to bury it. (Our than son in law must get credit for burying more than his share also.) Once one has died, we find a place and start digging. As you dig the hole all the other cats come around the hole and watch. Some sit close by, some stand or sit a little further back and some stand even further back. Paul said he talks to them as he digs and warns them about the dangers of going in the road. They look at him and listen like they understand. I never thought to do that. But anyway, they all gather and stay with you till you stomp down the last bit of dirt on the grave.
I'm not a "Martha" person by nature. So I may or may not bring you food when you lose a loved one. Depends what is going on with me. But I will stand with you. I may be able to come to the funeral home I may be able to come to the funeral. It all depends. If I can, I will, if I can't I won't. But I can promise you what I know I will do. I will stand with you like the cats. I will wake up in the middle of the night and pray for you. I will pray for you as I go through my day. I will remind the Lord that He said He won't let you have more than you can handle. I will pray that He will comfort you and strengthen you. I will pray that you can keep your mind on Him so He can keep you in perfect peace. I will ask the Lord to carry you. If your child dies I will pray for you for years. I will respect your loss. I will acknowledge your pain. Like my cats do, I will stand with you even if you don't know I'm praying.
Some stand close by.
Others a little further back.
And still others stand far away.
But we all stand with the bereaved in the way we can. Using the gifts God has given us. And if we all do that than the person is taken care of and helped to get through the dark time of loss.