Friday, December 14, 2012
Because He Lives
I must preface this article was written before the tragedies in Connecticut. My heart goes out to them. May our heavenly Father bring them comfort .
We were riding along on the bus when one of the teens suddenly asked if those were wild dogs. Over in the field there were two dog like animals. But as I looked they weren't dogs but coyotes or small gray wolves. We were too far to tell. But the way they moved you knew they were wild. Suzie (name changed for privacy) was a little upset. Her eyes looked fearful. There were a few other things going on so we didn't get back to her story for a while. But when we did she told of how some wild dogs had attacked one of her horses and wounded it. I didn't realize they would do that. She was very fearful. It had been traumatic to her when she found the horse after the attack.
That got me thinking. A lot of our fears come from our past experiences. Logical or not, we hold onto fears. We hold onto a past version of something. Some times a past lie. The enemy of our soul wants us to be locked up emotionally. He wants us to be so afraid that our world will become smaller and smaller. The extreme of this would be people who don't leave their home. Now most of us would say, Oh, I'm not like that. But what does fear do in your life?
My friend Tammy was attacked by two German Shepherds while out walking. She got between them and they didn't like that. She was bit a couple of times. For a long time she was terrified from it. But with God's help she has overcome the controlling fear that would gripe her whenever she was near a dog. She now even has a small one.
Some fears are less severe. When we went to New York some years ago with our than teen daughters we saw Lorelai, Lauren Graham, the mom from the Gilmore Girls series. Carla and Chanel were so excited but terrified to go ask for a picture with her. We had to coax them into going and asking her. They were so glad they did. It made their day. What if they had given into that fear? The joy they felt at meeting a star they loved wouldn't have been theirs. They would have regretted it.
My Mom has told me about when she was young she was so shy. Being shy is just being afraid to talk with people, afraid of what people will think of you. A form of fear. She said it was physically painful.
I have really worked on not being fearful but back in the day I was paralyzed by it many times . I would be unable to sleep worrying about my girls. When they were babies I would check: Are they breathing? When they went to school I would worry: Are they learning some evil ideas that will make them grow away from God? When Mandi started dating cell phone had just came out. I would call and call. It seems so silly than but I was sure they would be in an accident and be killed. It was really awful and a lie from the enemy. Praise God for delivering me from this dead end way of thinking. I'm almost embarrassed to tell you I used to think that way but if it would help just one person. It's okay to be a little embarrassed.
Fear can be overcome. How? Learn who God is and than you can trust him to take care of your family. And that when and if something bad happens he will see you through. He will never leave us or forsake us. You can learn to be brave and try things and to be confident. Also read the scriptures and see what God says about you. He loves you so much and when you KNOW that you can face anyone and any circumstance. Like the old hymn says:
Because He lives, I can face tomorrow,
Because He lives, all fear is gone;
Because I know He holds the future,
And life is worth the living,
Just because He lives!
It's a process though I still sometimes have to push it back down but I'm not controlled by it. And I know God doesn't want any of us to be.